Tuesday, September 24, 2013

The Man in the Glass















The Man in the Glass

When you get what you want in your struggle for self
And the world makes you king for a day,
Just go to the mirror and look at yourself
And see what that man has to say.

For it isn’t your father or mother or wife
Whose judgment upon you must pass.
The fellow whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the one staring back from the glass.

You may be like Jack Horner and chisel a plum
And think you’re a wonderful guy.
But the man in the glass says you’re only a bum
If you can’t look him straight in the eye.

He’s a fellow to please—never mind all the rest,
For he’s with you clear to the end.
And you’ve passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the man in the glass is your friend.

You may fool the whole world down the pathway of years
And get pats on the back as you pass.
But your final reward will be heartache and tears
If you’ve cheated the man in the glass.

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

T.R.U.S.T.











T - THINK on things above (Colossians 3:2)

R - REST in Him only (Psalm 62)

U - UNDERSTAND that we cannot lean on our own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6)

S - SECURITY in His perfect plan (Romans 8:14-15)

T - THANK Him always (1 Thessalonians 5:18)

TRUST!

Wednesday, September 4, 2013

Core Values


Core values are essential in any group or organization and they play a crucial role in accomplishing the overall vision and mission.  Often times when you think of a successful company or team there are specific words that come to mind that portray that specific group.  Our men's basketball program at Bob Jones University has made the effort to promote certain core values to build our foundation upon.  Coach Neal Ring and our staff spent a lengthy amount of time praying and talking through these values and came up with a "wheel" that provides a visual illustration to our players of how we expect them to become successful.  There are three parts to this "wheel" and they are our mission, our core values, and our vision.  Everything we do begins with a single heartbeat, one that every member of our program must buy into in order to attain our overall vision. 

MISSION STATEMENT

Our mission statement is at the center of the "wheel" and it reads,

"Bruins' men's basketball exists to develop student athletes who glorify God and to prepare them to always LIVE CHRIST." 
 
We believe that no matter what we are trying to accomplish from a basketball perspective, it will have no effect unless we are doing it for a bigger purpose.  What is our bigger purpose?  It is to glorify God and live Christ.  If we are simply coming to the gym every day in hopes to win games and get the ladies we have missed our true calling.  Our purpose is so much greater that the excitement, the wins/losses, and the cool gear.  We want to be used of God to impact lives for eternity through the game of basketball.  This sounds well and good, but simply stating this is not enough.  We need to have a plan of action and that is found in our core values.
 
CORE VALUES
 
Our core values are the pieces of the puzzle that we must live out if we hope to accomplish our vision.  There are four main values that we stress to our program.
 
1. Passion - First and foremost we need to have a passion.  We need a passion for Jesus Christ and we need a passion for the game of basketball.  We need to be willing to put the required work into both of those aspects and be committed to growing consistently in them.  A passion for Jesus can be cultivated through reading his Word and seeking him in every area of your life.   When you read the Scriptures, God opens your heart to amazing things and ignites a passion to know Him.  You will be amazed how God can use you when you are actively and consistently searching for him!  A passion for basketball will be stirred when you see the fruits of your hard work.  Early mornings in the weight room, boot camp conditioning, and grueling workouts sometimes are difficult, but once you step on the court in front of thousands of screaming fans, it all becomes worth it!  Galatians 2:20
 
2. Integrity - We expect our members to be honest and trustworthy in every relationship they have.  These values need to be mutual and we will treat everyone the same way we wish to be treated.  It's the Golden Rule!  If you want to be treated well, then treat others well!  Most people do not like being lied to and they hate when someone doesn't follow through, so make sure to value everyone in all things.  The world says that the 'cool' thing to do is lie, cheat and steal, but that is totally opposite of what the Bible says.  Instead, God calls us to live a life saturated with high character.  We are born sinners and sin is a daily struggle, so please don't think it's easy to do the right thing.  But do know that with God's grace all things are possible and he will give you the strength and the desire to do what is honorable!  Luke 6:31; Philippians 4:8
 
3. Humility - Athletes are glorified in this world and sometimes they expect to be treated in such a way.  However, we have a platform to make an impact and we must display humility.  We do this by being selfless, having a grateful spirit, and acting out with servant-leadership.  When I was a camp coach at the University of Minnesota, Tubby Smith left a lasting impression of humility on me.  We were in the cafeteria when one of the campers spilled his food tray all over the floor.  From a distance I noticed all of the campers and coaches staring at this kid and some were even laughing and pointing at him.  Nobody stopped to help him.  What I didn't see was that Coach Smith had immediately gone to get paper towels and he was the first one to help.  He smiled at this kid and told him it was OK, got down on his hands and knees and began to clean up this camper's mess.  As a young coach I was in awe that a man such as Coach Smith would humble himself to serve others.  The same goes for Jesus.  He came to this world not to be served, but to serve others.  There are so many examples in the Bible about Jesus providing food, healing the sick, and just being there to share the gospel with anyone he possibly could.  He was always on the lookout to serve others and he called us to do the same.  True leadership is done through serving others.  Mark 10:45
 
4. Collective Responsibility - We are always holding each other accountable.  There is a mutual support among coaches, players, managers, and support staff.  There is no whining, complaining, and no making excuses.  The Bible says we sharpen each other just as iron sharpens iron.  A team is a powerful force and when every person is looking out for the best interest of the others, amazing things can happen.  We can cultivate this by holding players accountable for their class attendance, grades, and relationships.  If you see your teammate sleeping in class or texting during a lecture, call him out in a biblical way!  More importantly keep each other focused on reading the Word.  The most important thing we can do as a coach is to disciple our players and make sure they are doing what needs to be done to know God.  Teammates need to watch out for each other and make sure others are not doing something they shouldn't be doing such as drinking alcohol, being involved in a immoral relationship, or rebelling against authority.  When a team comes together and supports one another, there is no telling what they can accomplish!  We want our players to graduate and become godly husbands and fathers, not just good basketball players.  Proverbs 27:17
 
When these four values are lived out on a daily basis, success becomes a bi-product of the process.  If we can live out these values each and every day, we believe that they will ultimately allow us to carry out our overall vision.
 
VISION STATEMENT
 
Our vision statement is our end goal.  It is where we want to be what we want to accomplish.  We can do this by carrying out our core values and staying focused on our mission.  Our vision statement reads,
 
"We view basketball as a potent platform for ministry in this present age.  To maximize this platform, we must prepare to compete against each opponent to earn their respect; with this respect we earn the opportunity for testimony of Christ."
 
God calls us to proclaim the gospel of Jesus Christ and to disciple others to become more like him and do the same.  Basketball is only a tool that God has given us to carry out the great commission (Matthew 28:16-20).  As a program, we want others to come to know Jesus Christ and seek to glorify him.  Of course we want to compete at the highest levels and win championships, but ultimately we are only doing that so that Jesus Christ will become famous!  Here is a look at what our "wheel" looks like:
 
 
Follow the BJU Bruins Men's Basketball team at the following:
 
Twitter - @BJUBruins
Instagram - @BJUBruins
 
 
 
 

 

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Great Books

Reading List in 2013

Here is a list of books that I have read so far in the first five months of the year.  I just wanted to put these out there in case anyone was looking for some new book suggestions, as I know I constantly am!  If you've read any of these books or have any suggestions of your own I would love to hear about it!  There is nothing better than reading a great book.



1. The Explicit Gospel by Matt Chandler

Rating: 10/10








2. Training Camp by Jon Gordon

Rating: 10/10








3. The Difference You Make by Pat Williams

Rating: 8/10








4. Real Marriage by Mark & Grace Driscoll

Rating: 8/10








5. The Energy Bus by Jon Gordon

Rating: 10/10








6. Be Our Guest by Disney Institute

Rating: 9/10








The Seed by Jon Gordon

Rating: 10/10








Follow Me by David Platt

Rating: 10/10








One Word by Dan Britton

Rating: 10/10








A Hole in Our Holiness by Kevin DeYoung

Rating: 9/10








The Shark and the Goldfish by Jon Gordon

Rating: 10/10








Date Your Wife by Justin Buzzard

Rating: 10/10










Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Teamwork at Its Best

There is a breed of bird, the Northern Geese, who make their home in the upper United States and Canada.  They migrate south each year in the fall before winter sets in and lakes and ponds start freezing over.  We often see them flying in that familiar "V" formation and there is a reason they do this.  By studying the geese, researchers have found that as each bird flaps its wings it creates uplift for the trailing goose.  By flying in a "V" formation, the whole flock adds 70 percent greater flying range than if each bird flew on its own.  When the lead goose gets tired, it rotates back in the formation and another goose flies on the point.  The geese also make their honking sound to support each other and to let them know they are in formation to keep up the speed.  This is a remarkable example of teamwork at its best.  By flying in formation and communicating with each other in an upbeat way, they perform at a higher level.  They exemplify the true meaning of the acronym T.E.A.M. - Together Everyone Achieves More.  It's synergy in action - the whole is greater than the sum of its parts.  It's amazing how much can be accomplished when no one cares who gets credit!


Taken from the book, "The Strange Secret of the Big Time" by Frosty Westering, 2005.

Friday, May 17, 2013

Is Your College Worth The Investment?

According to Yahoo! Finance, former Secretary of Education, William Bennett recently conducted a study on "return of investment" (ROI) for over 3,500 universities in the United States.  In that study, Bob Jones University was ranked 679 out of over 3,500 schools, which places BJU in the 80th percentile for ROI in the country.  This is an encouraging statistic when it comes to recruiting athletes into our basketball program here.  Student-athletes and parents alike will know that not only will they have a great intercollegiate athletic experience at BJU, but they will more importantly have the peace of mind that they are graduating from one of the top ROI universities in the country.  Here are some other rankings from that study to compare universities nearby or associated with BJU:

8.        Duke University
131.    Clemson University
461.    Furman University
679.    Bob Jones University
691.    University of South Carolina
722.    North Carolina Wesleyan College
813.    High Point University
928.    University of Tennessee-Chattanooga
935.    Georgia Southern University
1039.  Charleston Southern University
1070.  Limestone College
1135.  College of Charleston
1141.  Liberty University
1160.  East Tennessee State University
1168.  Lander University
1178.  Winthrop University
1201.  University of North Carolina-Asheville
1201.  Wingate University
1208.  Lee University
1233.  Cedarville University
1236.  Anderson University
1264.  South Carolina State University
1279.  Coastal Carolina University
1322.  Moody Bible Institute
1334.  Cornerstone University
1382.  Judson University
1412.  Southeastern University
1416.  Gardner-Webb University
1475.  Belmont-Abbey College
1476.  Francis Marion University
1510.  Valley Forge Christian College

Unfortunately, the rankings were only published this far.  I was hoping to see where many other schools that we compete against were at, but they must be too far down the list!  If you're looking for a high quality education that will help you earn the most money after you graduate and a place that competes at a high level of college basketball, BJU is your place!

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Here is the link to the article by Yahoo! Finance that contains information on the ROI study done by former Secretary of Education, William Bennett.  Rankings were taken from both 2012 & 2013 lists.






Wednesday, May 8, 2013

The Great Scorer by John Wooden

The following is taken from an article written by John Wooden.
 
"At UCLA, where I was head coach of men’s varsity basketball for twenty-seven years, poetry was one of my favorite teaching tools. I have loved poems since I was a child, perhaps because my father, Joshua Hugh Wooden, introduced me to literature at an early age—reading to his four sons at night under a coal oil lamp in our Indiana farmhouse: Tennyson, Whitman, Longfellow, Whittier, James Whitcomb Riley, Shakespeare, and more.

Later, at Martinsville High School, my basketball coach, Glenn “The ’Ol Fox” Curtis, was a master of motivation and utilized poetry to light a fire in his players. Grantland Rice was one of his primary “assistant coaches” in this area.

During a game against Muncie Central in which our team, the Artesians, were trailing at halftime and were thoroughly dejected, the ’Ol Fox jumped up on a bench as we headed back out to the court. Like a fire-and-brimstone preacher Coach Curtis exhorted us to remember the following:

For when the One Great Scorer
comes to mark against your name,
He writes—not that you won or lost—
but how you played the game.


We lost, but we did not quit. That poem, like many others, worked its magic, and I remembered it when I became a coach.

At UCLA, I constantly incorporated bits of poetry, rhymes, and maxims to help focus attention, give direction, and create inspiration. This seldom occurred during games but was a constant element in the locker room, on bus rides to and from arenas, in hotel lobbies, and especially during practice, where the real work is done, the real improvement made.
Bill Walton, UCLA’s center for two national championships and two undefeated seasons, tells people that I never stopped talking during practice—“an overriding chatter, never silence,” as he describes it. That so-called chatter included instructions on the mechanics of the game, obviously, but also dealt with attitude, which is as important as knowing how to shoot a jump shot properly. Poetry, in all its forms, was an efficient tool for this.

While I never stood on a bench and recited Grantland Rice, I did constantly inject ideas during practice that were “poetic.” If I sensed lagging energy in a player—Bill Walton, perhaps?—I might quickly take him aside and sternly tell him to step it up: “Failing to prepare is preparing to fail, Bill!”

On those occasions when I had to remind him to cut his hair or shave his beard before he could come into practice, he might offer the words of his own favorite poet: “Coach Wooden, ‘The times they are a-changin.’” Well, they weren’t a-changin’ for those who wanted to be members of the UCLA varsity basketball team.

I began each season—the first day of practice—with the same demonstration and instruction: showing players precisely how I wanted them to put on their socks; after that, how to lace and double-tie their shoelaces. “Little things make big things happen,” I cautioned them.

After ucla won its first national championship in 1964, I quickly reminded players who might be inclined to a sudden swelling of the ego of the following:

Talent is God-given; be humble.
Fame is man-given; be thankful.
Conceit is self-given; be careful.


Is this poetry? Certainly, in my opinion. I have a book of poems on my bookshelf by Billy Collins. The rules of poetry are and should be flexible; good words in good order is good enough for me.

In 1962, UCLA came within a whisker of winning a national championship. A phantom foul called on Walt Hazzard perhaps kept us from the championship game against Ohio State in which we would have been the favorite. Our team had given it everything they had. And been outscored. I reminded them of George Moriarty’s poem:

Who can ask more of a man
than giving all within his span?
Giving all, it seems to me,
is not so far from victory.


A teacher never knows what stays with those he or she is teaching. You do your best using the tools at your disposal. Poetry was one of my many tools. Thus, even though I understood that Bill Walton, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar, and many others on our teams may have raised their eyebrows at some of my maxims and poetry at the time, things changed as they matured. In fact, when Bill had children of his own, he began writing down some of my maxims on their brown paper lunch bags before they left for school.

He tells me their reaction was about the same as his while he played center at UCLA. And says he hopes some of it sticks with them like it did with him.

Poetry works its magic in many different ways."

CoachWooden.com

Friday, April 19, 2013

Follow Me

Coaching is leadership, and leadership is influence.  Therefore, coaching is influence.  Our players will be influenced by many things throughout their lives, so it is vital that we make a positive impact on them while we have the opportunity.  Billy Graham once said, "One coach will impact more young people in a year than the average person does in a lifetime."  Knowing the influence we possess as coaches, we need to ask ourselves regularly how we are impacting the lives of our players.  We can simply yell, scream, and tell them what to do, or we can just sit back and let them figure it out on their own.  Either way, the players we coach will be influenced by our leadership.  We can win every game on our schedule and tell our players they are successful, or we can lose every game and make them feel worthless.  How we lead our players is crucial because they will remember our influence for the rest of their lives.  But if coaches are supposed to lead and players are supposed to follow, who is leading the coaches?

Matthew 16:24-27 says, "Then Jesus told his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.  For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.  For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his life?  Or what shall a man give in return for his life?  For the Son of Man is going to come with this angels in the glory of the Father, and then he will repay each person according to what he has done.""

The greatest coach of all-time was Jesus Christ, and his example is the one we as coaches should let influence our lives.  If we can deny ourselves daily of our pride, selfishness, greed, and worldly ambition, then Jesus calls us to take up our cross and follow him.  Matthew makes it clear that following Jesus is no easy task.  It is not a life that will necessarily lead to health or wealth.  It is not a life that will necessarily lead to comfort.  Jesus does promise, however, that it will be worth it.  Sometimes as coaches we believe we can figure it all out on our own.  We think that winning will come if only we work harder, watch one more game film, make one more phone call, or practice a little bit longer.  We are driven by the lie that says we can achieve success on our own power and strength.  The truth is that we can only be satisfied if we deny our self, take up our cross and follow Jesus.  Our players are hungry for leadership, so let's make sure we are feeding them influence from the greatest leader of all-time, Jesus!

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Sunday, April 14, 2013

Little Eyes Upon You

This poem has always made a huge impact on my life as a coach.  It allowed me to see myself as a role model and be an example to every player that I coach.  From summer basketball camps where little kids idolize you, all the way to college players who are looking for positive male role models, this poem couldn't ring more true.  We are role models whether we like it or not, so let's make sure we are living up to the standards that every young person expects us to be! 

 








There are little eyes upon you
And they’re watching night and day.
There are little ears that quickly
Take in every word you say.
There are little hands all eager
To do anything you do;
And a little boy who’s dreaming
Of the day he’ll be like you.

You’re the little fellow’s idol,
You’re the wisest of the wise.
In his little mind about you
No suspicions ever rise.
He believes in you devoutly,
Holds all that you say and do;
He will say and do, in your way,
When he’s grown up like you.

There’s a wide eyed little fellow
Who believes you’re always right;
And his eyes are always opened,
And he watched day and night.
You are setting an example
Every day in all you do,
For the little boy who’s waiting
To grow up to be like you.

Monday, January 7, 2013

Readers Make Leaders

In 2010, I was challenged by one of the best coaches in the country to read 50 books in one year, a lofty goal!  Alan Stein (@AlanStein), the strength and conditioning coach at DeMatha Catholic High School and owner of Stronger Team, achieved this goal in 2009 and really made me want to accomplish it as well (Praise God, I did).  I've always loved reading, but that was really the first time in my life that I realized how much of an impact books would make on me as I develop into a better leader.  I was hooked.

In the past two years, I have also set goals to read a certain number of books throughout the year.  In 2011, I read 20 books and in 2012 I read 25 books.  This year I have decided to compose a list of books that I would like to get through, and will be adding more along the way.  Hopefully by 2015 I will back to the goal of reading 50 books in a year!

So far in 2013 I have finished two books from my list.  "The Energy Bus" and "Training Camp", both by Jon Gordon.  Through reading these two books alone, I believe that I have developed greatly as a leader and I am excited to read more by Jon Gordon and other authors as well.

As I continue to grow and mature into the leader God has called me to be, I anticipate reading to be an essential part of that.  Looking back over the years I would contribute a significant amount of my learning to reading books.  Although I enjoy reading books on leadership, business, basketball, and religion, my true joy is reading my Bible.  Jesus was the greatest leader of all-time, and if I only had one book in my possession, I would want it to be my Bible.  I am ecstatic to share my experiences with members of our basketball program at BJU (@BJUBruins) and hopefully this passion will rub off on others along the way!  I believe that every coach needs to become a reader if they are expecting to lead their team to success both on and off the court.  If you are interested in reading some books this year, here is my reading list for 2013:

1. "The Energy Bus" by Jon Gordon (@JonGordon11)

2. "Training Camp" by Jon Gordon

3. "The Explicit Gospel" by Matt Chandler (@MattChandler74)

4. "Date Your Wife" by Justin Buzzard (@JustinBuzzard)

 5. "Real Marriage" by Mark Driscoll (@PastorMark)

6. "The Fred Factor" by Mark Sanborn (@Mark_Sanborn)

7. "A Hole in Our Holiness" by Kevin DeYoung (@RevKevDeYoung)

8. "The Good Life" by Trip Lee (@TripLee116)

9. "One Word That Will Change Your Life" by Dan Britton (@fcadan)

10. "The Positive Dog" by Jon Gordon

11. "Everyone Communicates, Few Connect" by John Maxwell (@JohnCMaxwell)

12. "The 360 Leader" by John Maxwell

13. "No Complaining Rule" by Jon Gordon

14. "The Seed" by Jon Gordon

15. "Soup" by Jon Gordon

16. "Creature of the Word" by Matt Chandler

17. "Who Do You Think You Are?" by Mark Driscoll

18. "Underdawgs" by David Woods

19. "Jesus + Nothing = Everything" by Tullian Tchividijan (@PastorTullian)

20. "Your Pregnancy for the Father-to-Be" by Glade Curtis

21. "I Am Second" by Doug Bender

22. "How to Be Like Walt" by Pat Williams (@OrlandoMagicPat)

23. "Go For the Magic" by Pat Williams

24. "Dr. Jack's Ledership Lessons from a Lifetime in Basketball" by Dr. Jack Ramsay

25. "What the Dog Saw" by Malcom Gladwell (@MalcGladwell)


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